it's amazing how much the tenor of life can change in but a quarter. a season. however, one must say, that in this, by far the best year of my life, i've encountered a season of desuetude of my own making. unlike years past where i could blame such a season on the excesses of fast living or the reaping of seeds of irresponsibility, this time i ( Read more... )

one might think that given a milestone birthday, a major advancement in marriage equality, the spread of unrest through the middle east, a trip out of town, and several wonderful nights out, that i might have updated my livejournal several days if not weeks ago. however, i've always contended that the more that update my journal less as i live my ( Read more... )

"i can't hate you, though i have tried," sade once crooned on her beautifully haunting ballad "love is stronger than pride," but the words like so many others existed only in a hypothetical space about love and loss, but here i am in that cummulonimbus between the onset of a potentially real relationship and all of the hope and longing that comes ( Read more... )

Here is your Daily Single's Horoscope for Saturday, November 13

Change is vital right now, especially when it comes to your love life. Show your readiness to welcome that change by actively exploring new options, saying hi to new faces and expanding your horizons. i must say that i'm pretty sure i exceed the average american in that i clearly ( Read more... )

"i didn't mean to turn you on." my mind is a spindle of cultural influences and inspirations and it takes me quite some time to simply commit my thoughts to words here despite it all. and i don't know what made me think of it, but in one moment i had nothing to write, and in the next moment i found myself mumbling the robert palmer standard- ( Read more... )

Here is your Daily Single's Horoscope for Wednesday, February 24

Ever eaten an unripe pear? It's dry, tasteless and unyielding. Far better to let it sit on the tree and ripen. In other words, why be in such a rush? Your love life will pick up when it's good, ripe and ready. one might think that i've been on a cocaine-and-vodka bender for several ( Read more... )

fight or flight. i've clearly come to a crossroads in my life and i'm not entirely sure how i'll cross it. last friday, i received my final severance from my former employer and i also received word that my second interview did not result in a job offer, but in a faceless, un-signed, and generic letter expressing regret ( Read more... )

Here is your single's love horoscope
for Tuesday, March 17:

Men and women really can't be friends. And if you need more proof, see what happens when you hop in bed with your 'pal.' If you acknowledge what happened and maintain an open, honest line of communication, you should be able to salvage this relationship. what has this world come to when ( Read more... )

for the second week in a row, it begins and it ends with jealousy. and this week, it shows. i suppose the story starts back last thursday, but first a dream: this morning, i had the most metaphysical dreams i've had in quite some time as i found myself begging my intern for sex. now, let's be completely clear. on like EIGHT different levels i ( Read more... )

for me, it begins and ends with jealousy. it shouldn't. it's not healthy. if i'm not careful, it'll get me in trouble one day, but there it is. and i realize this remains one of the most backward ways of posting about my las vegas trips -- that is, not posting about it at all at this time -- but i've called off work sick because i just don't ( Read more... )